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Resources on Death and Grief

General:

  • Always Remember, Meng, C.  2016.
  • Badger’s Parting Gifts, Varley, S., 1992.
  • Gentle Willow: A Story for Children about Dying, Mills, J., 2003.
  • God Gave Us Heaven, Bergen, LT and Bryant LJ.  2008.
  • The Goodbye Book, Parr, Todd, 2015.
  • Healing Your Grieving Heart: For Kids, Wolfelt, A. 
  • I Miss You: A First Look At Death, Thomas, Pat, 2001.
  • The Memory Box: A Book About Grief, Rowland, J., 2017.
  • The Next Place, Hanson, Warren, 1997.
  • Sad Isn't Bad: A Good Grief Guidebook for Kids dealing With Loss, Mundy, Michaelene, 1998.
  • Something Very Sad Happened:  A Toddler’s Guide to Understanding Death, Zucker, B., 2016.
  • Sun & Spoon, Henkes, Kevin, 1997.
  • Tear Soup, Schweibert, Pat, 2005.
  • Tell Me Papa, Johnson & Johnson, 2001. 
  • Tess’s Tree, Brallier, J., 2009.
  • What on earth do you do when someone dies? Romain, T.  1999 (2nd edition 2023).
  • When Dinosaurs Die: A Guide to Understanding Death, Brown, Laurie Krasny, 1998.
    ​   **This book has some parts that are sensitive to certain situations.  Parents may want to read ahead of time and choose pages that they feel are appropriate for their child.
  • Whistler’s Last Song, Herro, A., 2013. 

Death of parent:

  • Samantha Jane's Missing Smile, Kaplow, Julie, 2007.
  • Tiger Eyes, Blume, Judy, 1987.
  • You Shouldn't Have to Say Goodbye, Hermes, Patricia, 1982.
  • You Are Not Alone: Teens Talk About Life After the Loss of a Parent, Hughes, Lynne B., 2005, Teen.

Death of sibling:

  • Always My BrotherReagan, J., 2009. 
  • Ben’s Flying Flowers. Maier, I., 2012. 
  • Dancing on the Moon. Roper, J., 2001.
  • Ethan's Butterflies: A Spiritual Book For Parents and Young Children After a Baby's Passing. Jonas-Simpson, C.,  2006. 
  • Grieving For the Sibling you Lost:  A Teen’s Guide to coping with grief & finding meaning after loss, Hyatt, E. G., 2015.
  • Where’s Jess: For Siblings who Have a Brother or Sister Die, Johnson, M., 1982.

Fetal/newborn/NICU loss:

  • No New Baby: For Siblings Who have A Brother or Sister Die Before Birth, Gryte, M., 1988. 
  • Remembering our Baby, Keough, P.  2001. 
  • Something Happened: A Book for Children and Parents who Have Experienced Pregnancy Loss, Blanford, C., 2012. 
  • We Were Gonna Have a Baby but We Had an Angel Instead, Schweibert, P., 2003. 

Workbooks:

  • A Bunch of Balloons: A Workbook for Grieving Children, Ferguson, D., 2006. 
       A book to help grieving children acknowledge what they have lost and celebrate what they still have left when someone they love had died.
  • Fire in my Heart, Ice in my Veins: A Journal for Teenagers Experiencing Loss, Traisman, E., 1992. 
  • Help Me Say Goodbye: Activities for Helping Kids Cope When a Special Person Dies, Silverman, Janis L., 1999.
  • How I Feel: A Coloring Book for Grieving Children, Wolfelt, Alan.
  • How I Feel: Grief Journal for Kids, Roldan, M.  2022.
  • When Someone Very Special Dies: Children Can Learn to Cope with Grief, Heegaard, M., 1996.

For adults:

  • Healing a Parent’s Grieving Heart, by Alan Wolfelt (and many other books by Dr. Wolfelt).
  • It’s OK That You’re Not OK:  Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn’t Understand, by Megan Devine
  • Parenting while Grieving: A Survival Guide, by What’s Your Grief.
  • Preparing Your Children for Goodbye: A Guidebook for Dying Parents, Heddermn, Lori, 2011.
  • Shattered: Surviving the Loss of a Child, by Gary Roe.
  • Talking About Death: A Dialogue Between Parent and Child, Grollman, Earl A., 1991.
  • The Unspeakable Loss: How Do You Live After A Child Dies, by Nisha Zenoff.
  • When Bad things Happen to Good People, by Harold Kushner.
  • When Children Grieve: For Adults to Help Children Deal with Death, Divorce, Pet Loss, Moving, and Other Losses, James, John W., 2001.

Separation (could or could not be related to death): 

  • The Invisible String, Karst, Patrice, 2000.
  • The Kissing Hand, Penn, A., 1993.
  • Love Waves.  Wells, R., 2012.
  • Wherever You Are: My Love Will Find You, Tillman, Nancy, 2010.

Websites

For more information, please contact Children's Hospital Bereavement Services at childrensgrief@prismahealth.org