Resources on Death and Grief
General:
- Always Remember, Meng, C. 2016.
- Badger’s Parting Gifts, Varley, S., 1992.
- Gentle Willow: A Story for Children about Dying, Mills, J., 2003.
- God Gave Us Heaven, Bergen, LT and Bryant LJ. 2008.
- The Goodbye Book, Parr, Todd, 2015.
- Healing Your Grieving Heart: For Kids, Wolfelt, A.
- I Miss You: A First Look At Death, Thomas, Pat, 2001.
- The Memory Box: A Book About Grief, Rowland, J., 2017.
- The Next Place, Hanson, Warren, 1997.
- Sad Isn't Bad: A Good Grief Guidebook for Kids dealing With Loss, Mundy, Michaelene, 1998.
- Something Very Sad Happened: A Toddler’s Guide to Understanding Death, Zucker, B., 2016.
- Sun & Spoon, Henkes, Kevin, 1997.
- Tear Soup, Schweibert, Pat, 2005.
- Tell Me Papa, Johnson & Johnson, 2001.
- Tess’s Tree, Brallier, J., 2009.
- What on earth do you do when someone dies? Romain, T. 1999 (2nd edition 2023).
- When Dinosaurs Die: A Guide to Understanding Death, Brown, Laurie Krasny, 1998.
**This book has some parts that are sensitive to certain situations. Parents may want to read ahead of time and choose pages that they feel are appropriate for their child. - Whistler’s Last Song, Herro, A., 2013.
Death of parent:
- Samantha Jane's Missing Smile, Kaplow, Julie, 2007.
- Tiger Eyes, Blume, Judy, 1987.
- You Shouldn't Have to Say Goodbye, Hermes, Patricia, 1982.
- You Are Not Alone: Teens Talk About Life After the Loss of a Parent, Hughes, Lynne B., 2005, Teen.
Death of sibling:
- Always My Brother. Reagan, J., 2009.
- Ben’s Flying Flowers. Maier, I., 2012.
- Dancing on the Moon. Roper, J., 2001.
- Ethan's Butterflies: A Spiritual Book For Parents and Young Children After a Baby's Passing. Jonas-Simpson, C., 2006.
- Grieving For the Sibling you Lost: A Teen’s Guide to coping with grief & finding meaning after loss, Hyatt, E. G., 2015.
- Where’s Jess: For Siblings who Have a Brother or Sister Die, Johnson, M., 1982.
Fetal/newborn/NICU loss:
- No New Baby: For Siblings Who have A Brother or Sister Die Before Birth, Gryte, M., 1988.
- Remembering our Baby, Keough, P. 2001.
- Something Happened: A Book for Children and Parents who Have Experienced Pregnancy Loss, Blanford, C., 2012.
- We Were Gonna Have a Baby but We Had an Angel Instead, Schweibert, P., 2003.
Workbooks:
- A Bunch of Balloons: A Workbook for Grieving Children, Ferguson, D., 2006.
A book to help grieving children acknowledge what they have lost and celebrate what they still have left when someone they love had died. - Fire in my Heart, Ice in my Veins: A Journal for Teenagers Experiencing Loss, Traisman, E., 1992.
- Help Me Say Goodbye: Activities for Helping Kids Cope When a Special Person Dies, Silverman, Janis L., 1999.
- How I Feel: A Coloring Book for Grieving Children, Wolfelt, Alan.
- How I Feel: Grief Journal for Kids, Roldan, M. 2022.
- When Someone Very Special Dies: Children Can Learn to Cope with Grief, Heegaard, M., 1996.
For adults:
- Healing a Parent’s Grieving Heart, by Alan Wolfelt (and many other books by Dr. Wolfelt).
- It’s OK That You’re Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn’t Understand, by Megan Devine
- Parenting while Grieving: A Survival Guide, by What’s Your Grief.
- Preparing Your Children for Goodbye: A Guidebook for Dying Parents, Heddermn, Lori, 2011.
- Shattered: Surviving the Loss of a Child, by Gary Roe.
- Talking About Death: A Dialogue Between Parent and Child, Grollman, Earl A., 1991.
- The Unspeakable Loss: How Do You Live After A Child Dies, by Nisha Zenoff.
- When Bad things Happen to Good People, by Harold Kushner.
- When Children Grieve: For Adults to Help Children Deal with Death, Divorce, Pet Loss, Moving, and Other Losses, James, John W., 2001.
Separation (could or could not be related to death):
- The Invisible String, Karst, Patrice, 2000.
- The Kissing Hand, Penn, A., 1993.
- Love Waves. Wells, R., 2012.
- Wherever You Are: My Love Will Find You, Tillman, Nancy, 2010.
Websites
- The Center for Loss and Life Transition
www.centerforloss.com - The Dougy Center
www.dougy.org - GriefNet
www.griefnet.org - GriefShare
www.griefshare.org - Just Enduring: Living and Loving After Child Loss
https://justenduring.org - National Alliance For Grieving Children
https://childrengrieve.org - New York Life Foundation
www.achildingrief.org - What’s Your Grief
www.whatsyourgrief.com
For more information, please contact Children's Hospital Bereavement Services at childrensgrief@prismahealth.org